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Manifestation in Islam: Beyond the Trend
Discover the Islamic perspective on manifestation, tawakkul, and emotional healing. Learn how intention, dua, faith, and action can support spiritual growth, inner peace, and a deeper connection with Allah.
kaneezmohammad
Jun 84 min read


Should You Share Your Past Before Marriage in Islam?
Should you share your past before marriage in Islam? This blog explores Islamic guidance on disclosing past sins, repentance (tawbah), honesty, and what must be shared before marriage. Learn the balance between concealment, accountability, and protecting marital trust according to Qur’anic principles and authentic hadith.
kaneezmohammad
Feb 134 min read


Manifestation in Islam: Faith, Action, and Divine Will
In recent years, manifestation has become a buzzword. You may have seen it on social media or in self-help books, with ideas like “visualise it and you will receive it” or “speak it into existence.” For many Muslims navigating healing, growth, or major life changes, this concept can be both intriguing and confusing. Can we manifest our dreams and goals as Muslims? Or does it conflict with our belief in tawakkul (trust in Allah) and qadar (Divine destiny)? Let’s unpack thi
kaneezmohammad
Oct 5, 20253 min read


Labelling Negativity: An Islamic and Therapeutic Perspective
In our journey toward emotional and spiritual well-being, how we label our experiences plays a crucial role. As a Muslim counsellor, I...
kaneezmohammad
Jul 14, 20253 min read


Between Partner and Parent: Navigating Loyalty in Islam
Between Partner and Parent: Navigating loyalty in Islam Heba felt neglected due to Ahmed’s close attachment and prioritization of his...
kaneezmohammad
Jun 18, 20252 min read


Love From Allah: Does Being Loved by Allah Mean We Have to Suffer?
What if suffering isn’t the measure of how much Allah loves you? For those who have experienced trauma, rejection or conditional love, this article explores how our understanding of divine love can become intertwined with past pain — and how faith can help us separate Allah’s love from the people who hurt us.
kaneezmohammad
2 days ago7 min read


Understanding Qadr and Free Will: Do My Choices Matter?
What does it mean to have free will if Allah has already written our Qadr? This article explores the relationship between Qadr, personal responsibility, choice, and tawakkul — and how we can accept what is beyond our control while still taking responsibility for the choices we can make.
kaneezmohammad
6 days ago9 min read


When Childlessness Makes You Feel “Cut Off”: A Reflection on Surah Al-Kawthar
For some Muslim women, childlessness can become more than the grief of not having a child—it can affect identity, belonging, and self-worth. Reflecting on Surah Al-Kawthar, this article explores grief, legacy, and the difference between what feels absent and the abundance that may still be present.
kaneezmohammad
Sep 15 min read


I Was the Biological Child: An Islamic Reflection on Hurt, Belonging and Healing
What happens when a child feels unseen in their own home? This personal Islamic reflection explores childhood emotional neglect, the pain of feeling set aside, and the lasting impact of believing that other people’s needs matter more than your own. Through the principles of justice, compassion and healing, it explores how we can acknowledge childhood wounds without denying the struggles of others—and remember that being unseen by people never meant being unseen by Allah.
kaneezmohammad
Aug 159 min read


How Islamic Counselling Services Support Mental Wellbeing
Mental wellbeing is a vital part of our lives, yet it can sometimes feel difficult to nurture, especially when challenges arise. When I think about the unique support that Islamic counselling services offer, I feel a deep sense of hope. These services blend faith and psychology in a way that respects your beliefs while addressing your emotional and mental health needs. Have you ever wondered how faith-informed therapy can make a difference in your journey towards healing and
kaneezmohammad
Jun 224 min read


Sexual Abuse, Silence and Healing: An Islamic Perspective for Survivors
Many survivors of sexual abuse are told to remain silent due to shame, culture, or misunderstanding of faith. This article explores an Islamic perspective on abuse, justice, accountability, and healing, while affirming that survivors deserve support, dignity, and compassion.
kaneezmohammad
Jun 194 min read


Fear, Trust & Tawakkul: What the Day of Arafah Teaches Us About Carrying Heavy Hearts
A reflective Islamic mental health piece exploring fear, anxiety, and tawakkul through the lens of the Day of Arafah. This article gently discusses emotional overwhelm, trust in Allah, healing, and the importance of seeking support while carrying life’s hidden struggles.
kaneezmohammad
May 264 min read


Anxiety and Tawakkul in Allah: Holding On When the Heart Feels Heavy
Anxiety and tawakkul are not opposites. Feeling anxious does not mean your faith is weak; it means you are human. Tawakkul is not about eliminating fear, but about placing your trust in Allah while you carry it. Even in moments of uncertainty, when the heart feels heavy and the mind seeks control, tawakkul gently reminds us that what is written will not miss us, and that Allah is present in every outcome.
kaneezmohammad
Apr 305 min read


Consumer Culture and the Psychology of “Answered” Duʿāʾ
In a world shaped by consumer culture and instant gratification, many Muslims unknowingly approach duʿāʾ with expectations of guaranteed outcomes. This reflection explores how modern cultural narratives influence spiritual thinking and invites believers to rediscover duʿāʾ as an act of humility, trust, and connection with Allah rather than a transaction expecting specific results.
kaneezmohammad
Mar 123 min read


Supporting Yourself While Caring for Family: A Winter Approach to Islamic Self-Care
Caring for others is an amanah, but so is caring for yourself. Winter invites us to slow down, soften, and tend to our hearts with mercy. Islamic self-care is not indulgence; it is wisdom, balance, and sustainability.
kaneezmohammad
Dec 17, 20253 min read


The Importance of Listening as a Client in Couples Therapy
In couples therapy, listening is more than a skill — it’s a form of care. When partners feel truly heard, emotional safety grows, misunderstandings soften, and space is created for healing, connection, and change.
kaneezmohammad
Dec 7, 20253 min read


Weaponizing the Counselling Room to Meet Your Agenda
In any therapeutic relationship, trust is sacred. The counselling room is meant to be a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space for...
kaneezmohammad
Sep 24, 20253 min read


Healing the Heart: Counselling as a Path to Spiritual Purity in Islam
Understanding Tazkiyah: Spiritual Purification as a Central Goal At the heart of inner spiritual growth for any Muslim lies Tazkiyah —...
kaneezmohammad
Aug 29, 20252 min read


Understanding the Role of Women in Polygamous Relationships: A Counsellor’s Perspective
Polygamy, specifically polygyny —where a Muslim man may marry up to four women under specific Islamic conditions—remains a sensitive and...
kaneezmohammad
Aug 7, 20253 min read


Healing After Online Infidelity
Healing After Online Infidelity Online infidelity is a deeply painful experience — one that can shake the very foundations of trust in a...
kaneezmohammad
Jun 18, 20252 min read
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